Coping With Involuntary Childlessness

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Involuntary Childlessness

Article Summary: Each year, millions of couples struggle with infertility and getting pregnant, but that doesn’t make coping with involuntary childlessness any easier. However, open communication, finding a support network, and attending therapy regularly can help.  Approximately 3.6 million babies are born in the US every year, according to the CDC. That’s nearly 10,000 babies every single day! Sadly, the … Read More

What Is Complex Trauma In Adults?

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Complex Trauma in Adults

Article Summary: Understanding complex trauma in adults is critical, as complex PTSD shows up in approximately 1%–8% of the global population. Helping these adults recover from trauma can help them lead happier, healthier lives while improving their relationships with the people around them. Therapy can assist in overcoming trauma and reconnecting with the world in a positive way.  Nearly everyone … Read More

Therapy for Foster Parents

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foster parents

Article Summary: Fostering a child in need can be a beautiful experience, but it can also be incredibly stressful. That’s why therapy for foster parents is important. Therapy can help foster parents develop new tools, process their own emotions, and understand the pain and frustration the foster child likely feels.  Foster parents fill an incredibly important role in society, but … Read More

Praying And Meditating: Differences, Benefits, And More

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Prayer and Meditation

Article Summary: Praying and meditating both offer health benefits by soothing the mind, boosting physical health, and reducing anxiety. Although they are slightly different, decades of research show they’re both beneficial.  As a team of therapists, we’re rooted in research-backed techniques and the latest scientific findings. But even though we believe in the scientific method, we also realize an important … Read More

Therapy For Adoption Trauma: Healing the Mother Wound

tomilynAdoption, Therapy

Article Summary: Therapy for adoption trauma is essential, as research shows that many adoptees suffer from complex trauma and CPTSD—often a result of abandonment, neglect, and even abuse. Fortunately, EMDR and other therapies can help adoptees heal from these wounds and lead happy, healthy lives.  As you think back to your childhood, you probably don’t remember very many moments before … Read More

‘Am I Dissociating?’: Understanding Dissociation, DID, and CPTSD Dissociation

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What is dissociating?

Article Summary: If you’ve ever wondered, Am I dissociating?, you’re not alone. Many people—even high-functioning executives—suffer from dissociation and Dissociative Identity Disorder (formerly known as Multiple Personality Disorder), especially when there’s a history of trauma or Complex PTSD (CPTSD). Understanding DID and CPTSD dissociation can help overcome the symptoms to lead a happy, healthy life.  Dissociation and Dissociative Identity Disorder … Read More

How Long Does EMDR Take For Complex Trauma?

tomilynEMDR, Therapy, Trauma

EMDR and complex trauma

Article Summary: Many of our EMDR clients have the same question: “How long does EMDR take for complex trauma?” Although the answer varies from person to person, EMDR can fully address complex trauma in as few as 6–12 sessions. Trauma is frustrating. Even after you’ve removed yourself from a threatening situation and you know you’re safe, the emotional and psychological … Read More

Parents With PTSD

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Parents with PTSD

Article Summary: Parents with PTSD often struggle with raising children because their underlying trauma may interfere with their ability to connect with their family. Therapy can help these parents overcome PTSD to become more engaged with their children and live happier lives.  I had a horrific start to motherhood.  When my daughter, Maya, was born, I had a 52-hour labor … Read More

What Is Fawning In A Relationship?

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Fawning in a relationship

Article Summary: Fawning in a relationship is the practice of putting a partner’s needs ahead of your own, even if it means negatively impacting yourself. Sadly, fawning behavior is often learned by dealing with abusers early in life or through damaging past romantic relationships. Therapy can help restore self-confidence and self-respect, eventually eliminating fawning altogether.  Once you know how to … Read More

What Does A Death Doula Do?

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Death Doula

Article Summary: A death doula is a compassionate professional who assists people as they prepare to pass away. Many death doulas specialize in creating a safe, calm environment where individuals can finally accept their own mortality. With the doula’s help, individuals can pass away with dignity.  Most of us are familiar with the idea of a doula from the process … Read More